Come out of curiosity. Stay for the randomness.
I’ve just given up.
Everybody has to convince you to see their point of view. They can’t leave well enough alone and let you learn. It’s about them getting you to see things how they see it instead of enjoying the difference of the ways we are. That’s a mindset that hurts us in this world. We are different. Different beliefs, upbringings, experiences, tastes, cultures, etc. Get over it.